“Go back and ask for a better offer!”
That was the immediate response from counsel for the family of an injured child when I relayed the defendant’s opening offer in a traumatic brain injury claim in which I was mediator. He added that, unless the next offer was significantly better, he would call the mediation off.
That reaction was understandable. There had recently been a joint settlement meeting, and the atmosphere had become tense once it was clear that the parties’ valuations were far apart. The defendant’s position relied heavily on medical evidence suggesting a good recovery and a real prospect of full recovery with minimal residual symptoms. The claimant’s team saw the case very differently.
Rather than simply return to the defendant’s room and ask for an improved offer, I asked one question:
“Why?”
The answer mattered. The claimant’s solicitor explained, in detail, his work with the family over several years and what he had observed about the claimant’s recovery. The claimant had improved, but with enormous support from the extended family. Without that support, the solicitor said, the claimant was a different person and symptoms quickly re-emerged. Specific examples were given. A statement made by the claimant to the defendant’s medical expert was also explained; once context was added, its meaning changed significantly. Counsel then identified the parts of the claimant’s medical evidence that supported this account. He also acknowledged that, on the defendant’s evidence, he could understand why the defendant had taken the position it had.
That was the important moment. The issue was not that either side abandoned its view of the case. It was that the mediation created an opportunity to understand more clearly why the other side saw the evidence differently.
With the defendant’s agreement, the claimant’s solicitor and counsel came with me to the defendant’s room. I asked them to repeat what they had just told me, as though they were explaining it to me for the first time. They addressed their comments to me, not to the defendant’s team. This helped avoid the feel of a courtroom exchange or a direct confrontation.
The discussion went well. Counsel for the claimant then turned to defendant’s counsel and quietly said that, if it were possible to negotiate on the basis just outlined, he was confident that settlement could be reached. A calm discussion of the medical evidence followed. No reference was made to the defendant’s opening offer.
About 90 minutes later, agreement was reached on a settlement which claimant’s counsel was content to recommend for court approval.
The claimant’s solicitor later confirmed that approval had been given. He added that, although he had thought the case was strong enough to proceed to court after the joint settlement meeting did not make progress, he knew the claimant and family were keen to avoid the stress of a hearing. For that reason, he had recommended mediation.
What are the takeaways?
This case did not settle because anyone gave up on legal analysis. It settled because the process enabled the parties to understand the evidence, risks and human consequences of the dispute more fully than had previously been possible.